Abortion is nobody's first choice. Nobody's. But without access to safe abortions, men will lose their wives and daughters to wire hangers. Many men who do not understand women believe in their heart of hearts that if abortion were legal, they would never have been born. But women know this is not true. Women want the children they want. But to force them to raise children they do not want will cause them to take risks that could kill them. Or be terrible mothers. Take your pick.