We cannot have something as universal as marriage defined in 50 different ways. Otherwise, we no longer have the United States but a lose federation of independent countries formerly known as America. Understand that gay marriage has nothing to do with marriage and everything to do with undermining and destroying the centuries old Judeo-Christian moral and ethical set of values. It is also one of the major goals of the Communist Party in America as reported to Congress in 1963 - the destruction of America's moral fiber. In that same report, goal number 15 is to "take over one or both political parties." It is clear that the first political party to succumb is the Democratic Party. You can see from all of their actions and talking points that the support the tenets of socialism and communism. In fact, I'd go so far as to say that the Democratic Party is, in fact, the Reconstituted Communist Party of America. And, rather than being the Commander In Chief (CINC), Mr. Obama acts more like the Communist In Charge (CINC).