This is a male culture of abuse that needs to be stopped. Coaches and children need to be taught again and again what to look for and how to report abuse, and be assured protection. Teams and private schools are building a culture of secrecy by not reporting and instead passing these men from school to school and team to team all the while having suspected abuse or been aware of it. Men need to be more vocal about these issues that are plaguing their gender. We need to start addressing these issues boldly, as well as their causes. Men allow jokes, abuse and violent behavior to pass without comment or consequence and often view this as a women's issue.