I have grown up in a society that constantly looks for problems. I do not understand how people can judge people so harshly based upon anything less than actions. Words, skin tone, sexually, texts, posts, likes, drug use, or any other factor describe one singular part of an individual's multifaceted personality. Can you show up to work and do your job? Do you want to contribute to the world in a positive way? Do you genuinely care about your friends, family, and those suffering? These are the questions we should ask ourselves and the ways we should think about others, not what you do in the bedroom. Issues like these are ridiculous and I am ashamed they still run throughout the world we all live in.