I've been with my partner since 1999. We are currently in Vegas . It's 445 am and she is snoring. Why in the Hell would anyone need to change anything? She is not my wife, she is not my husband. We aren't getting married and have no intention on it. Not everything is for everybody. Gay marriage shouldn't be allowed. However, it is. What else do people want? Should we start calling races different names? What's next? Btw, I had a 3 year old when we met and made "arrangements" and had a baby while we were together. We took care of all necessary paperwork to protect our children and assets. Anyone can get married anyway but can YOU stay married?!? Ummm, most likely NOT, so let's call a spade a spade. She's my partner and that Ho across the hall with her snoring husband is a "wife" . We are both miserable because we spent all our money on slots last night and we have to sit and listen to "her husband, and my partner".....snore " So let's keep things the same and continue on. Now, excuse me I'm going to steal some cash from my "partners" wallet because there is a penny slot calling my name.