Extended family is very important. I worked many years with an Indian doctor who was here in the states while her parents were still in India. It was very hard on her, especially when her mother got sick. Fortunately, she had the money to fly home, but it could only be for short intervals due to work obligations. When my friend's daughter was getting married, the parents had a long frustrating time getting the visa and we were beginning to wonder if they would be allowed to be present at their granddaughter's wedding. This is not the American way. Family is so important, but lately, it seems it's only important for the white folks. Stop breaking up families, be they white, black, yellow or brown. Keep families intact, including Mexicans, Latinos, Muslim and anyone else trump is trying to keep out/throw out of the country.